Wow, 12 weeks?!? How long can a missed miscarriage actually last? I am pretty confused at the moment. I thought for sure by now it would be over. I debated calling my RE this week since I didn't talk to him after last week's ultrasound. But then I decided if I have waited this long, I might as well just keep waiting. I don't see much point in going for a D&C for a 5 week embryo that is shrinking in size. Anyways, I just got home and my doctor DID call today and wanted to speak to me about the ultrasound reports. He won't be in the office tomorrow though so I'm going to have to wait till next week anyways. So, I guess I'll keep waiting!
I actually don't feel super anxious about it anymore. I feel like time is wasting away, but I don't feel so urgent at the moment (who knows though, that could change in the next 5 minutes). Even if I intervened in the process of miscarriage, I feel that my body would still have to take the same amount of time to reset and get back to normal. I'm hoping we could try another IUI sometime this summer. The next few months are pretty crazy anyways. We have a holiday in June and my family all coming to visit. Our exchange student is graduating and DH's brother is moving out (he got a job...hooray!). So by July 1st, we will be ALL ALONE again. I am SO EXCITED for that. I figure that is when we'll resume TTC.
Oh, and tomorrow I am making the hour trek to see the fertility counsellor. I hope it's worth it!
I'm so sorry you have to wait an entire weekend before talking to your doctor. Hoping you have a peaceful weekend anyway.
ReplyDeleteThese next few months will bring so many changes. I hope your miscarriage comes to an end soon. You've waited so long and been so patient. I hope the counsellor is helpful, and worth the hour trek and some. I hope being home just the two of you gives you some peace and time to rest. Take care!
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